Have you ever been judged before? If not, then You probably do not know how being judged is felt. So first, we should know why people are being judgemental. What is judgmental? Judgmental is the term which is regarding to someone as good or bad, it is also to form an opinion about something or someone after careful thought.
Are you judgemental? Many of us have fixed opinions about people or situations, that can be perceived by others as judgemental. We cant just judge other people, we need to know them first before judging them.
How can we become less judgemental? First we should put yourself in the person's shoes. This the hardest thing to do and it is also important. Second we should try to learn something from every person. We shouldnt be shy talking to them we should be open to anyone. Third we should ask lots of questions. If you want to get to know a person, then you should get to know him. Fourth we shouldnt judge a person based on their appearance. Because they are also human same as you. Fifth we shouldnt listen to what other people say about this person. Sixth we should look for common ground. Finding common ground with a new person is a great way to stop yourself from judging the person. Lastly we should give every person more than one chance. Judgmental people don't give people a chance at all. If you want to be less judgmental, then you should try to give every person you meet at least two chances, if not more. Show Less
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